Meeting a perfect matchPosted: October 19, 2012
It amazes me how many of us, women, focus on finding a perfect man for them. Our energy is completely dispersed outward. Namely, not only do we keep looking “out there” for the right person, we often take the person in front of us and work on changing that person to fit what we want.
You could hear insanity in this, yet most of us have done it and are guilty of such intentions.
What works and will never fail you is to focus all your energy on YOUrself. When you think of “the perfect man,” start imagining what his perfect woman would look like and then BE her.
If you want someone who is wealthy, look at your finances. Are you waiting for someone to be a quick fix for things that you have never been responsible for? If so, be sure that your relationship will fail or that you will be dominated.
I am not saying you need to be like the guy you want to be with, but don’t think you will interest a guy who is up to something if you are sitting at home and waiting. You don’t have to be up to the same things, but you need to honor and be great at what matters to you. Then, you will meet people who are up to something and are great at what matters to them. When you are both fulfilled, the chances are, the relationship will be fulfilling.
Don’t force a relationship to happen! Instead, allow it to happen! Don’t try to change men, change yourself to match who you dream of being… That is your access to having a powerful relationship.